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I have been married for 15 years and have one son. Several years ago my husband had an affair with a coworker and has since been living with her. Visitation for my son occurs regularly but at our home. An overnight/ weekend visit has not been requested. This other woman has only had interactions with our son on two occasions. I have not filed a separation agreement. My husband supports us financially as if he still lives with us. What should I do to best protect myself legally/financially?

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Jennifer M. Long, B.A. J.D.

10 years ago

You should consult with a lawyer to negotiate a separation agreement or go to court and get proper order/agreement in place regarding support, custody etc. If you do not have a support agreement or order in place, your husband could simply stop paying you and you would not have recourse (in terms of enforcing support). If you get a support order or sign a separation agreement, then you can have it enforced through the Family Responsiblity office.

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