Posted in Anonymous Q & A, Separation by Questions on February 18, 2013
15 years ago I asked my husband to leave (due to stress in my life) we were apart for 6 months! We sat down with a counsellor and drew up some papers (which I don’t have copies any more! Husband came back and has lived here ever since! Are we still seperated? The marriage is still strained, but one of the arguements we have is are we still seperated? I say we aren’t he says we are! Sleep in seperate beds, but he eats with the kids and I, pays the mortgage, taxes, and house insurance, on the income tax it has been filed as married for 15 years! Just need to get this straight in my own head! I guess we are married when it benefits him and we aren’t when it doesn’t!